How to Write a Strong Shidduch Resume
Tips, insights, and a downloadable template to help you get it done — professionally and pain-free.
Why a Good Shidduch Resume Matters
If you’re navigating the shidduch process, chances are you’ve seen your share of resumes. Some are clear and helpful — others, not so much. This guide is here to help you create a polished, professional one-pager that opens doors instead of raising questions.
📌 The Basics: What Every Resume Needs
- Keep it to one page. Even if you have a lot to say, trim it down. A smaller font is okay — just make sure it’s still readable.
- Save as a PDF. It looks clean, consistent, and works across all devices. (Use “Print to PDF” from your computer’s print menu!)
👪 Family Details That Matter
- Grandparents: Especially useful for clarity when you have a common last name.
- Mechutanim: If you’re not including them, reconsider. These connections can make a big difference.
- Parents’ Siblings: Especially helpful if you’re out of town and don’t have many local references.
📞 Reference Tips
- School Staff: Quality over quantity. Two thoughtful names are better than five vague ones.
- Rebbeim: Choose someone who truly knows the boy — not just a big name in the yeshiva.
- Friends: Pick articulate, responsible people. Make sure they’re available to answer calls.
- Employers: A trusted employer can offer great insight — don’t overlook this!
📱 Communication Counts
Landlines are outdated. Always provide a cell number — and if it’s a couple, include both, or clearly state whose number it is.
💡 Final Thoughts
A shidduch resume is a starting point — not a full picture. Don’t judge too quickly based on where someone went to school or whether they’re currently in college. Stay open. Ask questions. Learn more. People are much more than what’s on paper.
📎 Ready to Start?
Download the customizable Shidduch Resume Template here. Once you’ve filled it in, save it as a PDF before sharing it!
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